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Sometimes it can help to just scream it out what's [Removed] you off....
I'll start...
As my "company" (aid relief, but behaving like a company) changed so many things.... Our teamleader was thrown out, is a normal co-worker now... The shiftplans are "planed" centrally now (I can't even say it's planned, that would imply it has a structure, but it's just like throwing [Removed] on a paper). The shiftplan is.... just no. We work our asses off, have plushours galore and the other watch has minushours. So they have freetime enough and we thought about putting containers on the watch to live there, because we don't know why we pay rent for our flats - we're hardly ever there!... And the best shifts are always given to the temporary workers who already have a very good job, so they get the extra amount on money instead of us....
Next week I can finally take my annual leave from LAST year (by law you have to take it by 31th march by exception... I got it excepted even longer. I'm so ready for a holiday!
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Know just how you're feeling @ComaChameleon. My mum died a week before Mother's Day. Everywhere I looked there were reminders; in the shops, on the telly......
It was very painful. Thinking of you and how truly upset you are. Know it does get better but it takes time, lots and lots of time. You are in my prayers, Anna 
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thank you
It's like everything wanting you to know you''ve no family now. It's weird.
But I have a new one... My boyfriends family aswell as the one of my best friend.
Will be with my best friend and her huuuge family (she has 5 siblings) at new years eve.
Had to thing about you and the Jewish Schiv'a traditions as we weren't alone here and our friends helped us here a lot ^^
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Friends and fanily are very important when you lose a loved one @ComaChameleon. Jewish tradition helped me get through it. I'm not religious but my religion got me through to the other side with my rabbi's help; before our falling out. He was my rock at a time when I needed one
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@ComaChameleon wrote:And I decided to leave catholic church now. Thought about it for a long time. But will do now. Every cent of the 30€ it'll cost is worth it's money...
I'm sorry to hear that @ComaChameleon as faith can be such a help at a time such as this. However, I think I understand why and, at the end of the day, it's your decision. I only hope you don't look back on it in future with regret.
As I've said I'm not a religious person but it was thanks to my faith that I came out the other side sane, when my mum died. But you're not me and because it helped me doesn't mean faith will be of any help to you. The best of luck with your decision.
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@ComaChameleon wrote:I haven't believed for a long time now. And still do not. I gave "god" many chances to convince me. it didn't.
And if I want to go back... It's catholic church... They take back everything they can... (And yes, it sounds as sad as it really is)
Well if you don't believe in God @ComaChameleon, little point in being a member of the Catholic church. Yes, Anna it is sad but if you don't believe, you don't. I wouldn't presume to argue as belief is very subjective. What works for one person doesn't work for another. I wish you well and will reply to your PM when I've had some sleep and food. Take care, Anna my dear.
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@Anonymous wrote:
I hate my knee!
Is it not improving @Anonymous? 
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@Anonymous wrote:
I hate my knee!
Cycling is difficult with a dodgy knee
