Whatsapp

[skyerayleigh]

My boyfriend ( only 6 months )had to go to New Zealand to see his sick mum. He turned all phones off because of work contacting him. He's been gone 6 weeks and the other day his Whatsapp was in use. I got a friend to call the number on her phone and he answered. I'm not sure if he is home or still there.The ringtone wasn't no different from ringing him here so does that mean he's here or still there and the times on Whatsapp are the same as ours and I know there is a time difference.

[Anonymous · Accepted solution]

Hi,

The ringing tone will be the same as your ringing a uk number.

The only way to find out is to ask him directly where he is and on his honest reply.

[skyerayleigh]

Thanks everyone is saying you should get a different ringtone, I suppose that's why the same time comes up on Whatsapp.

[skyerayleigh]

I know I should ask but don't want to him to think I'm a "Bunnyboiler" checking up on him It was just a shock to see the Whatsapp on I automatically thought he was home and wondered why he hadn' called.

[Anonymous]

Hi

You obviously have doubts over the situation so as I said it's an avenue to confront him.

Hope things go ok for you.

[skyerayleigh]

Thank you I'm just being paranoid I think as he has another phone for work and that is still switched off

[Anonymous]

Sometimes in times of stress and worrying one can read things into situations.

A relationship will only last with trust as a fundamental base.

[skyerayleigh]

That is very true with trust and I do trust him. It's just the excitement of seeing the Whatsapp on I just immediately thought he's home. Thanks anyway

[Anonymous]

You're Welcome.

[Cleoriff]

Hi @skyerayleigh ...if you want my advice ....just ring him and ask if he is at home or not